Change of Heart

Justice, Mercy, and Making Peace with My Sister’s Killer

This title was previously available on NetGalley and is now archived.
Buy on Amazon Buy on BN.com Buy on Bookshop.org
*This page contains affiliate links, so we may earn a small commission when you make a purchase through links on our site at no additional cost to you.
Send NetGalley books directly to your Kindle or Kindle app

1
To read on a Kindle or Kindle app, please add kindle@netgalley.com as an approved email address to receive files in your Amazon account. Click here for step-by-step instructions.
2
Also find your Kindle email address within your Amazon account, and enter it here.
Pub Date Mar 04 2015 | Archive Date Mar 09 2016

Description

Could you forgive your sister's killer?

This powerful, true story of faith and forgiveness shows that all of us are capable of experiencing the healing and renewal that comes with truly forgiving another. Change of Heart follows the transformative journey undertaken by Jeanne Bishop after the murders of her sister and brother-in-law, a journey that challenged Jeanne's belief in the message of Jesus on the cross and eventually moved her beyond simple forgiveness to the deeper waters of redemption and grace. Jeanne's authentic story will guide readers past the temptation of anger and revenge, and help them navigate the path of truly forgiving someone whose actions have hardened their heart.

From once wishing that her sister's killer languished in a cell for the rest of his life, Jeanne now visits him regularly in prison and publicly advocates for his release. "It's not okay what you did, but I am not going to hate you. I am not going to wish evil on you," writes Bishop of the murderer. "I am going to wish the opposite. I am going to wish that you will be redeemed."

"You have to forgive because you have been forgiven," said author Jeanne Bishop in reference to Jesus' Gospel message. Change of Heart shares her journey of moving beyond the concept of "forgiving and forgetting" to personal reconciliation with the man who killed her pregnant sister and brother-in-law. Her decision to forgive didn't come without a price though, and Bishop addresses the sacrifices that she made in the book. Bishop's work also brings the reader into the discussion of the challenging issues of restorative justice, juvenile life sentencing, mandatory minimums, and incarceration in the criminal justice system.

"The criminal justice system in the United States, which deems some people unworthy of redemption - even children who commit serious crimes, urgently needs to hear voices that speak for mercy and restoration. Jeanne Bishop's is such a voice." - Sr. Helen Prejean, activist and author of Dead Man Walking. "

Change of Heart confronts these serious and pressing issues of restorative justice, juvenile life sentences, and incarceration in the criminal justice system. Ultimately, Jeanne is writing more than a memoir of finding faith through extraordinary obstacles. Her compelling story offers a better understanding of what it truly means to be a person of faith. It is a call to action that is a “must-read for pastors, social workers, caregivers, and all who seek to build community with people relegated to the margins." - Greg Ellison, Emory University

Could you forgive your sister's killer?

This powerful, true story of faith and forgiveness shows that all of us are capable of experiencing the healing and renewal that comes with truly forgiving...


Available Editions

EDITION Other Format
ISBN 9780664259976
PRICE $22.00 (USD)

Average rating from 44 members


Featured Reviews

This is a beautiful, heart-felt and heartbreaking true story. In trying to come to terms with her sister and brother-in-law's murder, Jeanne Bishop discovers that the capture and life sentencing of their killer doesn't bring the peace she thought it would. She begins to feel God calling her to action. The specific act - forgiveness and reconciliation with her sister's killer.

Many people will have a problem with her decision to follow through on what she believes God is calling her to do - forgive the young man who brutally murdered her sister, brother-in-law, and their unborn child. Basing her decision on what she knows of scripture and, specifically, of Jesus, Jeanne finds a way to promote justice AND mercy, following Christ's example.

At times, heart-wrenching, this remarkable story of forgiveness and healing really made an impact on me. I hope that it will help others, who may find themselves is similar situations, to act in a godly and Christ emulating way. Beautifully done!

Was this review helpful?

I finished this one very quickly: partly because I was sucked into Bishop's storytelling, and partly because I unexpectedly had a lot of time to read this week and it's a short book. I do not support the death penalty, but I'm not sure how I feel about restorative justice (or, as Bishop notes, even how I define it). Bishop's story is heartfelt, real, and complicated. I really enjoyed reading it.

Was this review helpful?

Writing I was quite impressed with the quality of Bishop's writing, both in terms of its literary merit and in terms of its thoughtfulness. I expected it to be mainly memoir with some musings about forgiveness, with a mostly inspirational bent. And while Bishop's story is certainly inspiring, I was very pleased to find that she spends just as much time discussing her belief that Christians should oppose the death penalty as well as her own personal views regarding Christianity and the imposition of a life sentence without the possibility of parole for juvenile offenders. It took a much deeper intellectual and theological route than I expected, but in a challenging and thought-provoking way that I greatly appreciated.

Entertainment Value I think this will appeal to a pretty wide range of readers, although it should be noted that the author is a Christian and comes at the issue from a decidedly Christian viewpoint. A large portion of the book examines her work in the justice system attempting to outlaw the death penalty and her growing concern and activism against sentencing juveniles to life without parole - most of her reasonings coming from a Christian worldview. Of course the book is also filled with inspiration surrounding forgiveness and what it means to forgive without condoning or excusing criminal behavior based on the author's personal experiences. I found it to be very compelling reading and devoured it in just two sittings. I had planned to read it a chapter at a time over the course of a few weeks, but found that I couldn't put it down.

Overall I think this is definitely a must-read for Christians who have an interest in issues of social justice, as well as those who enjoy inspiring stories centered around forgiveness and mercy. It may also appeal to those who oppose the death penalty and are interested in looking for ways to discuss their opposition with Christians from a theological stance. I also think it's a book that can appeal to those who do support the death penalty, but who are interested in hearing other points of view. And it's absolutely idea for readers like me who are or have been on the fence.

Thank you to NetGalley for providing me with a copy to review.

Was this review helpful?

Readers who liked this book also liked: