Why Bother

Discover the Desire for What’s Next

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Pub Date Apr 21 2020 | Archive Date May 14 2020

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Description

The most important question you’ll ever ask yourself.

In Why Bother? personal-growth expert Jennifer Louden challenges you to open your mind, your heart, and your life by following where the question leads. Through reflection and stories from others, Louden demonstrates how to bother when it feels impossible or like too much work, whether after professional defeats, heartbreak, illness, or life-changing loss. She shows why you must prioritize what’s calling you at any time of your life, especially when you’ve sidelined your dreams to raise kids, pay the rent, or take care of aging parents. And crucially, she shows you how tapping into your deepest desires can give you the energy to move forward—even when the world seems in such dire straits. It’s time to reclaim the dignity and beauty of your desires. It’s time to get your bother on.

The most important question you’ll ever ask yourself.

In Why Bother? personal-growth expert Jennifer Louden challenges you to open your mind, your heart, and your life by following where the question...


Advance Praise

"A truly brilliant book. Jennifer Louden is warm, down-to-earth, and thoroughly practical as she explores the profound question of what matters most to each of us. It’ s quite stunning how she weaves together personal stories, deep reflections, inspiration, and immediately useful actions. A gem.”
—Dr. Rick Hanson, PhD, NYT bestselling author of Buddha's Brain

“I love this book like I love my closest girlfriends because just like them, it is funny and smart and brave. Like them, it is comfortable with the mess and the vulnerability—in me and in life. Like them, it digs into the details, the nuances of how we forge our paths, the stuff it often seems no one is willing to talk about. Whenever I put it down, I craved going back to it for more mentorship and comfort. It’s a truism among us personal-growth writers say that everything we are writing about has been written about a thousand times before, but I’m telling you—this has never been written before.”
—Tara Mohr, author of Playing Big

“Here is what I know about Jennifer Louden: she is a potent force for good in this world. Her life force is off the charts—girlfriend is alive. She does not bypass sorrow or rage but meets them fully and turns them into joy. She has single-handedly created a life of unique meaning, authenticity, and abundance that also happens to benefit countless others. If anyone ever asked, Hey, want to read a book about how to be just like Jen Louden? I’d say HELL YES. And now here it is. This powerful, real, funny, wise book will show you how to stop tormenting yourself with self-doubt and start living your one true life—not by becoming someone else, but by finally being exactly who you are.”
—Susan Piver, NYT bestselling author of The Four Noble Truths of Love

“I ended my own book with the words, ‘Now what?’ When I picked up Jennifer Louden’s book, I felt as if it were a follow-up to my own question. Why Bother? spoke to me as if I were speaking to myself (in a loving voice, instead of the jerky one) and it has become my guide, my map, my bible, my confidante. I want everyone I know to own a copy as tattered as mine.”
—JENNIFER PASTILOFF, author of national best-seller On Being Human

“This book is a revelation. Why Bother? woke me up from my creative slumber and revitalized the desire I had pushed to the side in favor of ‘getting things done.’ Jennifer Louden’s words gave language to the areas of my life that felt stagnant, and immediately catapulted me into the action my soul craved. If you’ve been looking to tap back into your truest desires and deepest purpose so you can craft a life of meaning, this book will help you do exactly that.”
—AMBER RAE, author of Choose Wonder over Worry: Move Beyond Fear and Doubt to Unlock Your Potential

“Why Bother? is a reclamation. With curiosity, wisdom, reverence, and grace, Jennifer Louden shows us how to transform two simple words from the ultimate expression of futility into a path back to desire and, eventually, meaning. Read it, then live it.”
— JONATHAN FIELDS, author and founder of Good Life Project

"A truly brilliant book. Jennifer Louden is warm, down-to-earth, and thoroughly practical as she explores the profound question of what matters most to each of us. It’ s quite stunning how she weaves...


Marketing Plan

* A combo of a Happy Women Dinners, co-working locations, and bookstore tour across the U.S. including San Diego, LA, San Francisco, Monterey, Portland, Seattle, Washington D.C., Chicago and to be confirmed New York, Nashville, and Baltimore.

* Highly engaged street team

* National publicity

* Social media advertising including Facebook ads that tap into my previous books including The Woman's Comfort Book

*Pre-launch invite to my email list of 18,000 and social media following (combined 35K) to a 5 day live and pre-recorded e-course

* Weekly FB lives and Instagram lives leading up to launch

* Numerous podcast interviews including The Good Life Project

* Guest posts

* Free "get your bother on" group support kit

* A combo of a Happy Women Dinners, co-working locations, and bookstore tour across the U.S. including San Diego, LA, San Francisco, Monterey, Portland, Seattle, Washington D.C., Chicago and to be...



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Featured Reviews

This is not your average self-help book. While other books in this genre float around midstream, this one soars above the others and lifts us with it. The author doesn't tell us how to bother, or why to bother, or how to live a life that's full of joy and meaning. Instead, she offers examples from her own times of not-bothering and shares how she found doorways and paths out of such overwhelm, grief, transition, loss, and depression.

I know that anyone who is going through anything difficult will resonate with the bright wisdom and teaching that is found here.

Especially helpful to me on my own journey are the thought-provoking, soul-stirring questions that are at the end of each chapter. Again, we are not told what to do or how to do it. We are simply invited to bring the questions into our own hearts and lives, so that we can find our own answers to the original "why bother" question. This is the most powerful teaching!

My copy is already underlined and highlighted and you can be sure that I will be reading this again and again as my life unfolds. I will also be gifting it to others.

Thanks to Netgally, the author and publisher for an advance reading copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

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I found this to be a very refreshing book in the self-help/personal development genre. I loved her way of writing and I found it to be both inspiring and motivating. I think this book would be helpful to those that suffer from depression as a way of seeing a constructive way out of the habits and thought patterns that lead you to depression. A thought-provoking read!

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I love Jennifer Louden's books. The Woman's Comfort book was a favorite of mine during a time that made the concepts particularly applicable. As I began to read this book, I found myself searching for the "tips and tricks"....give me a checklist! When that didn't surface, I eased into the ideas in this book. They are deep. They caused me to think, to highlight, and to take notes for pondering. I ended up needing this book at THIS point in my life. It was particularly poignant and I will buy myself and my friends copies when it is released. #WhyBother #NetGalley

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