Long-Distance Grandparenting

If you also are looking for a resource full of encouragement and practical tips on how to be a long-distance grandparent, this is it. Rice says that “distance can be an opportunity” and that it’s possible to have an even better relationship because you’re not taking it for granted.

(But this book can also be just as useful for grandparents who live next door to their grandchildren.)

Rice emphasizes a strong prayer connection. "The most important and reliable connection between a long-distance grandparent and his or her grandchildren is prayer....With God, there is no distance at all between us and our grandkids."

Rice shares specific requests we can pray for each grandchild, and also how we can use those prayer needs to boost conversations with our grandkids.

He also encourages us to be a planner. If we don't already know how to best use a calendar, now is the time.

"One of the reasons why some long-distance grandparents neglect to visit their grandkids is simply because of poor planning."

Other suggestions include:

* how to create a grandparenting budget
* tips for visits with your grandchildren (before, during, and after)
* ideas for grandparent "camps/mission trips/service
* how to use both snail mail and technology to keep regular communication strong.

Rice includes a 10-point summary at the end of the book, culminating with #10:

"Remember, something is always better than nothing. Don’t try to be the perfect long-distance grandparent. You will not only fail but your grandchildren may want to have you committed. Be yourself and do whatever you are able to do."

It would be impossible to do all the things suggested in this book, but even implementing a few new ideas makes the book worth the read.

My thanks to Net Galley for the review copy of this book.

I’m actually really taking note of the Grandparenting Matters Series. I don’t have Grandchildren yet but sometime in the next few years I might. I know my kids will all be spread out and we will have to learn to be Long Distance Grandparents. There are some amazing suggestions. Of course prayer is huge! Creating a calendar, budget and what to do to make the most of your time when visiting! Writing letters, emails and texting! If you’re a gamer playing online games! Lots of great insights! I will highly recommend this book to friends!